What Are Some Good Gift Suggestions For Women?
A post entitled “Gift Suggestions for Women” was not logical, but indeed mandatory, after our last post on “Gift suggestions for Men”.
The fact is, however, that men really do not know women very well. He can learn her likes and dislikes, her moods and her motives, what bores and excites her. However it remains a mystery (to men) just how she lives her daily life – even to what she chooses to put in her purse on any given morning of the year.
Therefore, while you may know who the woman in your life is (for the most part) just what she is might still elude you. Consequently, you will find it more difficult to understand what she needs – and you need this understanding to select the perfect gift.
The first question in approaching your task might be to ask; will your gift be practical, or symbolic? It is always possible to make the wrong call, but if you listen to her, you might just get a clue to a solid gift suggestion. If you still find yourself floundering hopelessly, however – you might try walking down the middle.
For example, many gifts are practical and symbolic too. Choosing one of these gifts just might just be your best option. This article has decided to focus on this middle ground for gift suggestion, and to recommend to men, some great options that should delight the woman in his life by making her feel loved – as well as to give her something practical, that she can use.
Both men and women explore by nature, but women explore what goes on inside, while men explore what is “out there”. Both seem confined to their own domains, and terrified of the other. Rare is the guy who explores his emotions, feelings and pain, and he doesn’t want anybody else exploring these either.
Women, however, are more courageous about these things. They feel pain just as men do, but they do not run from it. If something is in the air, they do not just “live with it” to keep the peace – they want it settled. They are interested in gifts that elicit emotion, because they are not afraid to “feel”. The word “pretty” means more to a woman than a man will ever understand.
So there you have it: a set of directions for the perfect gift suggestion for a woman. So what does this mean?
It means that you can forget about that new camping stove. She will end up giving it back to you to use, as it has no emotional attachment – and what did we just say about your gift eliciting “feeling””?
Okay. We get it. Give with feeling. So, expensive jewelry should turn the trick, am I right? If you spent that much money, you must care – right? No, you are WRONG. Expensive jewelry certainly will light up the eyes of a gold-digging casual acquaintance, but it is not for the girl of your dreams. It represents lack of thought, puts a value on your relationship, and starts her thinking how you plan to pay for it.
No, there is no need to hock the family station wagon to show her how much you care. Instead, try one of these gift suggestions.
Unique Gift Suggestions for Women
- Personalized Gourmet Cheese basket
- A collection of her favorite Teas (that is attentiveness)
- Gardening Gloves or Tools (she never knew you cared)
- Unique Jewelry Boxes and Curios (don’t rush this)
- Pendants, Earring etc. that recognize special moments (first kiss?).
- A Love Letter (No, it is NEVER corny to tell her how you feel)
- Waxed Flowers (Real flowers that last for decades)
You need only to apply a little imagination, combined with your knowledge of the women you love, and you are in business. Again, normally she will tell you what she needs, but you have to be attentive to receive these clues.
Time away from you to do “girl things” with the girls might be just what she needs. See if you can arrange this. Alternatively, maybe time away, ONLY the two of you, will turn the trick.
What we are after in this post is to impress upon you that a new cigarette lighter is NOT an effective gift. You can do better, but you have to care enough about the woman in your life to feel her pain – and just what have we been talking about all this time?
Now, with all of this advice, surely you can be expected to get things right. If you get a half-hearted, “that’s nice, dear” it is your entire fault. We may not have made the perfect gift suggestion for your lady, but you should now be armed to do things for yourself.
Be sure to order your gift early. A late gift is acceptable to a man, but for a woman, the day is as important as the gift, and a gift a week after valentine’s day simply won’t have the same impact.
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